2.18.2009

saying goodbye...

















A Tribute to My Grandpa

I am honored to pay tribute to a man, a son, a brother, a husband, a Dad and a Grandpa. Chad Robert Chesnut was a son to George and Eleanor Chesnut. He was a brother who had eight brothers and sisters that he loved very much. 

Chad was a man who served his country in honor and was proud of his service. A man who spent his career working hard for the railroad as a civil engineer. A man who honored his priesthood and served in many capacities within the church. A man who was constantly serving his friends and family. A man who loved working on his genealogy and family history. A man who was honest, full of integrity and had an amazing work ethic. 

Chad was also a loving husband to his wife Dorothy. He was a husband who honored his wife during their 62 years of marriage. He was constantly serving her and making sure she was well taken care of. In his last months, days and hours he was still concerned about making sure that his wife would be taken care of after he was gone. 

Chad was also a Dad to two beautiful children; Les and Patty. He loved his children so much and would do anything to make them happy. Every activity they were involved in, he supported; any accomplishment they achieved made him proud. He provided a wonderful home and future for both of his children. He was proud to be their Dad and they were proud to call him Dad.

Chad was all of these things; a man, a son, a brother, a husband, a dad, but to me, he was my Grandpa. He was a Grandpa that loved his grandchildren so much. He always made us feel so loved with his huge, body crushing, bear hugs, with kisses and “I love Yous.” He even showed us he loved us by pulling our hair or our toes. He was never short on sharing his love for us. He never missed a birthday party, graduation, performance or anything that we might be involved in. My family has been lucky to live close to my Grandparents our whole life. For many years we lived next door to them. We have been blessed to spend so much time with our Grandpa. My brother, sisters and I over the past few days have been reminiscing about some of our favorite memories of our Grandpa.

We recall watching my Grandpa spend endless amounts of time fixing things or working on a home improvement project. He was the ultimate handy man. If we ever needed anything fixed, we didn’t even have to ask my Grandpa, he would show up with his toolbox and all of his tools and begin fixing anything that he found was not working properly or to his liking. It was not uncommon to see our Grandpa checking our tire pressure while we were visiting his home. He got so good at that, he could eyeball the tire and tell us how low it was on air. Our Grandpa always had his pocketknife handy and ready to peel an apple, cut a loose string, or open a package for us. 

Anyone that knows my Grandpa knows that he could always be found out in his yard or in his shed. We loved seeing our Grandpa in his coveralls, with his hat and bandana on, riding around on his lawn mower. In our younger years, he let us ride with him. We always felt it a privilege to help my Grandpa with anything he might be working on. 

My Grandpa had a talent that many of you may not have been aware of. He was the ultimate professional at rolling up sleeping bags. Although we had our own sleeping bags at home, we would always borrow sleeping bags from my Grandpa when we went camping. He was able to roll them up so tight and tie them with my Grandma’s old nylons in a knot system that even the scouts have never even heard of. It was an amazing talent. We would always return the sleeping bags to him, so sloppy, not even close to the way he gave them to us. He loved the opportunity to show us how he rolled them up. However, we have never learned the secret or developed the talent. His amazing sleeping bag rolling skills could never be duplicated.

One of our favorite things to do with our Grandpa was to go camping. Every year, My Grandpa’s family had a reunion. Growing up it was always a weekend camping trip in the mountains. These reunions were one of the most fond memories I have of my childhood. In addition to the reunions, my Grandpa also took us camping many other times during our childhood summers. We would leave our parents at home and my brother, sisters and I would go with just my Grandparents. We loved riding in the back of their fifth-wheel playing games, coloring and snacking, while my Grandpa drove us to our destination. We feel so lucky that our Grandpa wanted to spend so much time with us and worked hard to make sure we had a good time. 

Along with having fun, our Grandpa also made sure that we learned respect and manners. He was always reminding us when we weren’t minding our manners. Because of his example, we have learned to have a great deal of respect, and hopefully, we have remembered a few of those manners he taught us. 

My Grandpa always loved to remind me about a promise that I made him when I was just a little girl. I told my Grandparents that when they got older and couldn’t drive anymore, I would come over to their house and pick them up, and drive them around. Fortunately, for my Grandparents, they both had been in such great health, until recently, that I never had to do this. I am so grateful that I was able to make good on the promise I made to my Grandpa over 20-years-ago. I had a few opportunities in the past months to drive my Grandpa around. I felt it an honor and a privilege. I’m grateful that my Grandparents reminded me of this promise and let me fulfill it.

My Grandpa has also been the most amazing Great Grandpa to my three boys. He loved spending time with each of them. My Grandparents have watched my boys at least once a week since my first boy was born almost 7-years ago. My Grandpa would always let my boys play on his riding lawn mower, help him out in the yard or with a home improvement project. They would watch “The Price is Right” together. Whenever it comes on at our house, my boys remind me, “That’s Grandpa’s show.” Because of my Grandpa, Payton asks me to cut all the skin off his apples and wants to put salt on them like Grandpa does. Parker’s favorite lunch at my Grandparents house was noodles that he always shared with his Grandpa. My Grandpa spent so much time “holding the baby,” as my Grandma would say, while she took care of something else. My Grandpa held and nurtured all three of my babies and they were so lucky to know him. 

As you can tell, our Grandpa was a huge part of our lives. We will miss seeing him in his western shirts, with his handkerchief in his pocket, his hands casually tucked into his pants pockets, as he always stood and watched us pull out of his driveway and drive down the road out of his neighborhood before he’d go back in his house and shut the door. We know that his mortal life is over, but we also know that we will see him again. Our lives will not be the same without him, but our lives have forever been changed because of him. We are proud to call him our Grandpa and are so grateful for the legacy that this man, son, brother, husband, dad and Grandpa has left us.

2.15.2009

my grandpa...


passed away last night. I have so many thoughts going through my head and am trying to organize them. Luckily for me, I will be organizing my thoughts in the form of a talk for my Grandpa's funeral. For those who are interested and the many of you who have been so supportive, here is his obituary:

Chad Robert Chesnut

2.14.2009

valentine's day



This was a Valentine's Day that we will never forget. We started off at home with fun gifts for everyone in the family. I love holidays. I love preparing fun things for my family. I love celebrating with them. This holiday will go down in the history books as one of the most memorable Valentine's Day's our family has had. We spent the day at my Grandparent's home with my dying Grandpa. We knew it wouldn't be long before he left his earthly body and returned home. My entire family spent the day together. We spent time sitting with my Grandpa, holding his hand, talking to one another in his room. We also spent lots of time eating and enjoying each other's company. We played Scrabble and Phase 10. It was a bitter sweet day. It was amazing to be surrounded by family reflecting on my Grandpa's legacy, but it was hard to know that we would soon say goodbye. Just as we were preparing to leave around 9:00 pm that night, we went in to check on my Grandpa and he had just passed. No longer breathing. He moved on to bigger and better things. I'm so grateful that we were there. I'm grateful that my children were there. It was a touching experience to explain death to them. Parker kept saying, "Just wake him up." He also thought that maybe if we all screamed really loud that he would wake up. It's a hard thing for a 4-year-old to understand, but he was at peace with it. Payton chose to stay in the other room. It was easier for him to not see his Grandpa that way, which I was grateful for. It was beautiful to hear my children talk about death. They were constantly comforting me saying, "Mommy, it's okay, we're going to see Grandpa again someday." Somehow, I believe my innocent little children truly understand the eternal perspective better than I do. I have loved hearing them offer the most tender prayers on his behalf and on behalf of my Grandma. We ended our Valentine's Day saying goodbye to our sweet Grandpa. What a perfect holiday to spend being with the ones you love and losing someone who has given you so much love throughout the years!

2.06.2009

ten months old

Another month has come and gone. Seriously. I'm not going to say it, but you know exactly what I'm thinking. It's just not fair. This picture shows you what I do to Cooper all day long just hoping that maybe all my kisses will magically make him stay this size forever. Unfortunately, I don't think my plan is working! 


Cooper started crawling the beginning of last month. Now he loves to crawl EVERYWHERE. He can't be tamed!


Cooper went swimming for the first time and loved it!


He got his first ride in my Grandma Chesnut's tiny little wagon.  It's a hazing thing that all my boys have had to endure.  He endured it well.


Cooper also had his first plane ride, which he obviously enjoyed.


He also fell in love with his first stuffed animal.  I've had this in his crib since he was born (simply because it matched his bedding).  Recently, every time I go in to check on him he is sleeping with this stuffed animal.  So cute!



Cooper is still in his infant car seat, which he is too big for, but it's just too convenient for me.  He still sleeps in here and is always happy as can be.  Although lugging his 20 pound body around in this thing is not fun, I love that it's so easy to drag him everywhere with us!


Sweetest little baby in the world.  We can't get enough of this little guy!

2.05.2009

parker turns four...batman style!


Parker really wanted a Batman themed birthday party.  We sent his friends invitations to come dressed as their favorite super hero and help Batman find the cupcakes that the Joker stole.  Payton decided that he wanted to be the Joker.  Scary!  Here are all the little super heroes.


Here are the evil villains; the Scarecrow and the Joker


First, they all had to complete a super hero training course in order to become a certified super hero.


All the super heroes eagerly awaiting their turn.


This is one freaky dude!


After all the super heroes passed their training course they needed a break so Parker opened his presents.  He got some pretty fun gifts from his friends!



Once the presents were opened the super heroes were ready to find the cupcakes (notice they were on the table the whole time.  Gotta love four-year-olds.)  They had clues that eventually led them back to the cupcakes on the table where the evil Joker had left them.


After the cupcakes were found the super heroes got to eat them.  (My favorite part of this picture is that I caught Payton checking himself out in the mirror.  He carried that mirror around with him all day and was constantly checking himself out.)


I love how perfect the frosting looks thanks to my awesome cupcake frosting tool!


Once the kids sugar high peeked and prizes were awarded, we had to pull out our emergency DVD.  An old school episode of Batman & Robin.  It saved us for the last 10 minutes of the party!


Parker and his friends had such a fun time and Tim did a great job making these Gotham City decorations!


After Parker's friend party we had all of our family over for pizza, more cupcakes and ice cream. Parker was also showered with more presents!
 

We gave him this Batman scooter.  I think he likes it!  


I can't believe that my sweet little Parky is four-years-old.  Parker's little voice melts my heart.  He says the cutest and funniest things!  He is also so good at writing his name.  He loves to write his full name; Parker Timothy Jones.  He writes his letters so well.  We were all impressed with how quick he learned his letters and how legible his handwriting is.  He loves to practice writing and loves to do his homework every night with Payton.  He loves to do anything that his big brother is doing.  He also loves to squeeze and love his little brother.  He's lucky to have one brother to look up to and another brother to be an example to.  He fits so well right in the middle.  He is such an easy going child and is just happy to be here.  Right now he has a serious obsession with video games.  He wakes up in the morning talking about video games, he goes to bed asking about them, and tells me how he dreams about them while he's sleeping.  He is seriously obsessed and he's pretty good at them.  Unfortunately for him, I won't let him play video games all day long so he has to find other things to do.  Luckily, he has lots of friends he loves to play with!  I love my little Parker and feel so blessed to spend my days with this sweet little man!