As most Mothers do, I have an innate desire to instill in my children how important they are to our family. When we found out we were having our fourth boy we received lots of disappointed sighs. Lots of well intended people felt sorry for us. We never felt sorry for ourselves. Honestly, not even for one second was I disappointed. I always felt like Crew belonged. I hope he will never feel like just "another" boy in our family. I hope he will always understand that he belongs with us and we wouldn't have it any other way!